DEPRESSION

The loss of a job, loss or death of a loved, or not achieving an important goal may cause us to experience a deep sense of sadness or emptiness. But knowing whether this mood is a normal reaction or whether it is a symptom of a more serious mental disorder can sometimes be confusing. We all have felt depressed at some time in our life. For many, the feeling passes with time and with no adverse effects. But for others, long periods of these feelings can negatively affect our goals, relationships and general quality of life. Depression is highly common and becomes of concern when it affects every aspect of one’s life, persists for more than two weeks, or happens for no apparent reason.

Depression can manifest itself in three ways:

•    Depressed mood, including feelings of sadness, worthlessness, and loss of joy
•    Pessimistic thoughts and beliefs about the self, world and the future
•    Physical symptoms, including weight change, sleep disturbance and loss of interest in sex

The individual may begin to withdraw from others, have difficulty sleeping or sleep too much, wake erratically during the night, feel irritable or hopeless, have a difficult time concentrating, experience decreased energy, cry easily, and lose interest in activities they used to find pleasurable.

Therapy can provide hope while helping the individual to understand the feelings of loss and learn how to move forward and feel more positive about the future. It can be difficult for an individual to seek therapy when they are accustomed to blaming oneself for their current state. Depression is treatable through therapy because an individual learns how to recognize negative self-talk and change it to more supportive thoughts and actions. These actions can include raising self-awareness and gaining insight to enable him or her to seek out healthy relationships and improve the relationships he or she is currently in.

Types of depression that I treat include:

•    Major Depressive Disorder
•    Bipolar Disorder I & II
•    Dysthymic Disorder
•    Cyclothymic Disorder

Major Depressive Disorder usually includes having at least five different symptoms during the same 2-week period and are not typical of how an individual usually acts or feels. One of the symptoms is either depressed mood or loss of interest in what is usually found pleasurable and the mood lasts nearly every day for most of the day for that 2-week period. A change in sleeping patterns, eating patterns, feeling fatigued or loss of energy, feeling worthless or feeling excessive guilt and the inability to concentrate can also be present. Thoughts of death or plans for suicide or a suicide attempt can also be included in the possible symptoms.

Bipolar Disorder is a more complex mood disorder that typically includes a person experiencing a period of elated or irritable mood lasting at least 1 week. This period is considered a manic episode and symptoms such as talkativeness, inflated self-esteem, a decreased need for sleep, distractibility, racing thoughts, and an increase in risky behavior are usually included. Sometimes delusions or hallucinations can occur and there may be rapid shifts from anger to depression and the depression symptoms may last moments, minutes, or, more rarely, days.

In Bipolar Disorder, one or more manic episodes occur with one or more Major Depressive Episodes. An accurate diagnosis is important in determining whether the symptoms point to Bipolar Disorder or some other problem that can have similar symptoms.

Therapy can help when you establish a long-term relationship with a therapist you like. The therapist will help you recognize personality changes that indicate when you are moving into a mood episode. Getting early treatment can also help reduce the length of the mood episode.
Bipolar disorder also affects family members. They need to understand the disorder and how to help you cope. Support groups also help people with bipolar disorder. You receive encouragement, learn coping skills, and share concerns. You may feel less isolated as a result. Family members and friends may also benefit from a support group. They can gain a better understanding of the illness, share their concerns, and learn how to best support loved ones with bipolar disorder.


 


 

One cannot choose wisely for a life unless
he dares to listen to himself, his own self,
at each moment in life


                                -Abraham Maslow, 1971



Life is no straight and easy corridor along
which we travel free and unhampered, but a
maze of passages, through which we must
seek our way, lost and confused, now and
again checked in a blind alley


But always, if we have faith, a door will open
for us, not perhaps one that we ourselves would
ever have thought of, but one that will
ultimately prove good for us


                                -A.J. Cronin



For we lose not only by death,
but also by leaving and being left,
by changing and letting go and moving on


                            -Judith Viorst



Cristy Pareti, MA, MFT #47538 , Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist